Successfully dating Asian women requires a little bit more than just opening an account on Cherry Blossoms and waiting for the hits on your profile to start rolling in. If you want to meet and date Asian women, you’ll need to up your game because they are not at all like their western counterparts; Asian women get a lot of attention from men around the world because they’re enchantingly beautiful, polite, and highly intelligent.
Here are several tips for your next Asian dating adventure to ensure your ultimate success.
Ask About Her Interests
There are two people involved in every dating scenario; you and her. While an Asian woman will be happy to learn about you and your interests, it would be nice if you also took the time to ask about what makes her frustrated and sad or happy and fulfilled. Learn about what makes her smile!
Avoid Mentioning Stereotypes
Throwing out typical Asian stereotypes is one of the quickest ways to send an Asian girl running in the other direction. It’s a given that you have a “thing” for Asian women if you are registered on an Asian dating site, so this doesn’t need to be verbalized. Don’t go in expecting that every Asian woman knows martial arts or is a professional masseuse- that’s just silly. Treat each lady that you meet as an individual and don’t assume that you are trading messages with Lucy Liu’s clone.
Never Send Money
This is a common mistake that men make when dating Asian women long distance that you’ll want to avoid. While most Asian women have pure motives, some don’t and will take advantage of your generosity. Many websites have their share of financial scammers, and it is next to impossible to screen them out entirely.
If you want to send a gift, Cherry Blossoms has safe methods of sending flowers or other gifts that don’t involve the transfer of currency.
Again, NEVER SEND MONEY and report anyone who asks to the Cherry Blossoms Staff.
Don’t Disparage Her Family
For Asians, family is everything! Family is so important in the Asian culture that when you date an Asian woman, consider that you may also have to court every single member of her family. Never dismiss her family or the importance of their opinion on your courtship and budding relationship.
Respect Her Faith
If you wish to date Asian women, you could very likely encounter a lady with a strong sense of faith. For example, 86 percent of Filipinos are Roman Catholic. The particular religion and dedication to faith will vary by country, and sometimes region, but it’s important that you understand and respect that this is a part of her upbringing (see above) and acknowledge her faith.
Guys, we’re telling you this right off. “Nice butt!” is not going to get you a lot of responses.
Asian women, on the whole, care a great deal about appearances. They spend a great amount of time on fashion, beauty, and body image. Expect to gain extra points by complimenting on such things as choice of outfit, shoes, and hairstyle. Not just that; every lady likes to receive compliments on her sense of humor, her personality and her intellect, too.
Don’t get ahead of yourself
Remember when we discussed ditching those Asian stereotypes? Assuming that your new love interest is a “Geisha vixen” who is going to be your very own Asian sex kitten is a big mistake. In fact, you’ll find the opposite to be true when dating Asian women. Asian countries are conservative by nature, and you’ll need to be patient in every respect when you date Asian women.
While there are many ways to fail at Asian dating, finding love on an Asian dating site doesn’t have to be difficult. Some online sites are better than others, and Cherry Blossoms is the VERY BEST. We’re here to help you find success in your quest to meet your soulmate online. To date, we’ve helped over 150,000 couples unite through our service. Join today- it’s free to set up a profile.
10 turn-offs Asian Women Notice in a Dating Profile: http://blog.blossoms.com/?p=2170 Online Dating Safety and Guidelines for New Cherry Blossoms Users: http://blog.blossoms.com/?p=2113